Sacred Marriage Health Check

Significant Circumstances (C)

When faced with challenges in my marriage, I turn to God and seek him over the situation.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I believe that God can help me overcome all challenges, no matter how difficult.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I seek to discern God’s lessons for me when I encounter challenges in my marriage.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I surrender my worries to God and trust Him to take care of things for me.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I give thanks to God for my spouse.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I believe that God has the best plan for my marriage and trust in His perfect timing.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

Scriptural Obedience (O)

I talk to my spouse about how God is speaking to me through His word.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I seek the Word of God for specific situations in my marriage.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I encourage my spouse to obey the Word of God in his/her life (e.g. work, parenting, extended family).* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I obey the Word of God in my marriage, even when I do not feel like it.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I believe that spending time reading and applying the Word of God can transform my marriage.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

Spiritual Relationships (R)

My spouse and I encourage other couples along on their marriage journey.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I turn to a more experienced Christian couple for advice on my marriage.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I spend intentional time talking about my feelings, thoughts and plans with my spouse.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I am sexually intimate with my spouse.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I proactively seek reconciliation after my spouse and I have an argument.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

Spiritual Disciplines (D)

I pray together with my spouse.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

My spouse and I plan our tithe as a couple.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I attend worship service with my spouse.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I encourage my spouse to explore spiritual disciplines that he/she may not be practicing (e.g. fasting, solitude, confession).* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I make time to reflect on where God is leading my marriage.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

Sacrificial Service (S)

I am supportive of my spouse to serve in church or the community.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I understand my spouse’s spiritual gifts and encourage him/her to put them to good use to fulfil God's purpose.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I feel that my marriage has strengthened my ability to serve God.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

I share with others how my relationship with God makes me a better spouse.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

Without grumbling or frustration, I put my spouse’s needs above my own.* Always Most of the time Sometimes Never

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